Difficult Happens; Effective Communication for Bosses

Well, some difficult S*it just happened.

In 176 weeks of recording the difficult happens podcast, I have never missed a publication. 

It’s time for me to model the very behavior I talk about. We will all go through some … stuff in our lives and I want you to do the same when you encounter some really difficult stuff,  take care of yourself and your family.

Next week, I will be back and I will be combating toxic, manipulative, bullying behavior head-on! 

Work with Lara:

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Difficult Happens by Lara Currie

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Resources:

Series on Manipulation

Series on Assessments

Series on Conflict Personality-Types

Deep thoughts by Jack Handy (SNL)

© Lara Currie 2021

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Everyone, at one point in their life, has experienced a compliment that did not sit right. Either it was way too personal, or it felt a little backhanded.

That's why we're tackling whether or not compliments are toxic!

When we break down compliments, we can see that it depends on a variety of factors; Who is giving the compliment, the context, and the motive. When it comes to genuine compliments, you know it when you see it. 

What you’ll hear on today’s episode:

• Compliments
• Gaslighting and Narcissism
• Genuine compliments
• Overly familiar compliment
• Sideways compliments
• Backhanded compliments
• Awkward compliments
• Fishing compliments
• Toxic or Not?

Work with Lara:

Apply for an On-air Coaching Call!

Complimentary Breakthrough Consultation

Got a Question? Comment? Email [email protected]

Corporate Training

Difficult Happens by Lara Currie                       

Difficulthappens.com/workwithme/ 

Resources:

Series on Manipulation

Series on Assessments

Series on Conflict Personality-Types

Squad

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"Knowledge is when you learn something new every day." We learn learn learn all day long but do we take enough time to apply? I love to learn, and learning the concepts is one thing, but implementing is another.

This brings us to the one thing that we all need that we cannot do without. Something paramount to implementing better ways of communication, and that is empathy.

What is empathy to you?

Empathy is the ability to understand what other people feel emotionally and see things from their perspective. Empathy is important because it is a precursor to any conversation. However, there is more to empathy than meets the eye, especially for business leaders.

What you’ll hear on today’s episode:

• Learning
• Implementing
• Empathy
• Will Smith: Fault vs. Responsibility
• Empathy and Accountability
• Ways to show empathy

Work with Lara:

Apply for an On-air Coaching Call!

Complimentary Breakthrough Consultation

Got a Question? Comment? Email [email protected]

Corporate Training

Difficult Happens by Lara Currie                                                                    

Difficulthappens.com/workwithme/

Resources:

Series on Manipulation

Series on Assessments

Series on Conflict Personality-Types

You Tube: Will Smith - Fault vs. Responsibility

Squad

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Have you ever found yourself engulfed in a project, focused on the little details like font or style, and before you realize it, hours have passed? 

Guess what? You were distracted. Distracted does not always mean bouncing from one task to another or getting lost on Facebook when you should be working on a report. You can be hyper-focused on a task but be focused on something that does not serve your end goal. 

In the end, it doesn't matter why you were distracted. The effect is the same. 

Amber Hawley from the Distracted Entrepreneur Podcast joins us to talk about her personal and professional experience helping distracted entrepreneurs and those with ADHD. 

With the happenings of the last year, a lot of people are distracted. Many women are finding it difficult to focus with the children at home more, and the change in routine leading to a greater number of burnouts. In this episode, we break down systems and structures, boxes and labels, and discuss ways to combat burnout.

What you’ll hear on today’s episode:

• Being distracted and ADD
• What distraction looks like
• Buttons and triggers
• Personality Traits
• Types of ADD
• Time-Blindness
• Shiny Object Syndrom
• Breaks and burnout

Work with Lara:

Apply for an On-air Coaching Call!

Complimentary Breakthrough Consultation

Got a Question? Comment? Email [email protected]

Corporate Training

Difficult Happens by Lara Currie                       

Difficulthappens.com/workwithme/ 

Resources:

Series on Manipulation

Series on Assessments

Series on Conflict Personality-Types

Squad

Mentioned in the Podacast:

16 Personalities

The Power of When - Michael Breus

7 Types of ADD

Psychology in Seattle - Kirk Honda

Guest Resources:

The Easily Distracted Entrepreneur

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When you think of someone who's being assertive, what comes to mind? Do you see someone who is direct and confident, or do you see someone who is confrontational and forceful?

Have you ever been accused of being “aggressive”?

Was it a valid critique or was it an attempt to shut you down? Assertive communication is often confused with being aggressive by those who do not like what you are saying, but they are NOT the same.

Toxic workplaces, toxic relationships happen one breach at a time, We will be discussing how assertive is often misinterpreted as aggressive and is used against women and others lower in a business hierarchy. Learn about different communication styles and whether or not someone is being assertive or aggressive.

What you’ll hear on today’s episode:

• What is assertive
• Assertive vs. Aggressive
• Four types of Communication Styles
• How words change
• Toxic or Not

Work with Lara:

Apply for an On-air Coaching Call!

Complimentary Breakthrough Consultation

Got a Question? Comment? Email [email protected]

Corporate Training

Difficult Happens by Lara Currie                                                                   

Difficulthappens.com/workwithme/

Resources:

Series on Manipulation

Series on Assessments

Series on Conflict Personality-Types

YouTube

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In a world that is increasingly growing more visual, how do you keep up?

Younger and younger generations are becoming more socially competent in understanding differences in the "true-self" and "Instagram-self," but what about information spread online?

86% of people are now what is known as a  "visual learner." Infographics and other visual aids are a great way to absorb information. However, as we look at older generations, we see a problem where we have not kept up on our education with the vast evolution of the internet and are trusting of data visualizations that might have completely false data.

Amy Balliett of Killer Visual Strategies joins us today to discuss what you need to know as a consumer, entrepreneur, marketer, and leader. From best practices to statistics, this is one podcast you don't want to miss.

What you’ll hear on today’s episode:

• Social media competency
• TikTok
• Recommended tools and websites
• Mixed Fonts
• Stock Content
• Twitter star vs. heart
• Augmented Reality
• Amy Balliett

Work with Lara:

Apply for an On-air Coaching Call!

Complimentary Breakthrough Consultation

Got a Question? Comment? Email [email protected]

Corporate Training

Difficult Happens by Lara Currie                                                                   

Difficulthappens.com/workwithme/

Resources:

Series on Manipulation

Series on Assessments

Series on Conflict Personality-Types

Guest Resources:

Killer Visual Strategies

Amy Balliett LinkedIn

Book- Killer Visual Strategies: Engage Any Audience, Improve Comprehension, and Get Amazing Results Using Visual Communication

Websites:

Canva

Dribbble

Netflix Shows:

The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel

Hanna

© Lara Currie 2021

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Do you consider yourself a loyal person? Do you expect loyalty from your friends?

On this episode of Toxic or Not, we are tackling loyalty. Many see loyalty as a black and white issue. You're either loyal or you're not, when in reality, there is a lot of room for the shades of gray.

 I conducted a (very unscientific) poll gathering information on whether people perceived loyalty as a positive or a negative, and the results were surprising. 

Older generations were most likely to have a positive association with the concept of expecting loyalty from others. In comparison, younger generations had a very negative association with the word.

There is a dark side to loyalty. Here is what you need to know about when loyalty turns toxic.

What you’ll hear on today’s episode:

• What is Loyalty
• Generational Poll
• When loyalty is toxic
• When loyalty is not toxic

Work with Lara:

Apply for an On-air Coaching Call!

Complimentary Breakthrough Consultation

Got a Question? Comment? Email [email protected]

Corporate Training

Difficult Happens by Lara Currie                                                                   

Difficulthappens.com/workwithme/

Resources:

Series on Manipulation

Series on Assessments

Series on Conflict Personality-Types

YouTube

© Lara Currie 2021

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Who likes to talk about money?

Money and finances can be a minefield. How much should I charge? What are my costs? Do I really need this? There is a lot to contemplate!

There is a lot of advice out there, stalwarts preach that we should put money into an IRA or 401K, that we should do this or don't do that, and not question it. But know what? That might not be the best route for you. It's okay to trust your gut and ask more questions!

Lesley Batson of Rebel Rock Wealth joins us to discuss women, money, and business. Including myths around these topics that will surprise you.

Learn the whole truth about money and how you can get your money to work for you and the answers may surprise you.

We'll discuss math anxiety, triggers, and the six wealth destroyers you should watch out for.

What you’ll hear on today’s episode:

• Lesley Batson
• Women and Money
• Math Anxiety
• Triggers
• Pricing
• Price-it-right calculator
• Stereotypes
• How to keep more money
• 6 wealth destroyers

Work with Lara:

Apply for an On-air Coaching Call!

Complimentary Breakthrough Consultation

Got a Question? Comment? Email [email protected]

Corporate Training

Difficult Happens by Lara Currie                                                                    

Difficulthappens.com/workwithme/

Resources:

Series on Manipulation

Series on Assessments

Series on Conflict Personality-Types

Guest Resources:

Checkout Lesley’s website

Rebel Rock Wealth

Price It Right Calculator

SchoolHouse Rock:

How a bill becomes a law

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Have you ever worked someplace and only realized, looking back, that it was a pretty toxic place?

Sometimes figuring out that we are working in a toxic company, or with toxic people is difficult. So ask yourself, are you being treated unfairly, or are you just needing "thicker skin"? (spoiler alert - if it’s toxic for you, it’s toxic to you)

A few weeks ago I saw an SNL Skit that was funny but also a little scary.

The skit touched on toxic workplaces, gaslighting, and silencing one's voice through the lens of whiny 20-somethings, i.e.tropes and logical fallacies. What's scary about this is that these things do happen. But, not in the scenario the SNL cast acted out...

That's why I'm introducing a new series called "Toxic or Not." We'll discuss all the ad hominem fallacies and whether or not a situation was actually toxic.

What you’ll hear on today’s episode:

• SNL SKIT
• What is a Trope
• Ad Hominem Fallacies
• Toxic or Not series
• Sketch shows to check out

Work with Lara:

Apply for an On-air Coaching Call!

Complimentary Breakthrough Consultation

Got a Question? Comment? Email [email protected]

Corporate Training

Difficult Happens by Lara Currie                                                                    

Difficulthappens.com/workwithme/

Resources:

Series on Manipulation

Series on Assessments

Series on Conflict Personality-Types

Sketch Shows:

Baroness Von Sketch Show

A Black Lady Sketch Show

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“I do not think that word means what you think it means” -- The princess bride.

The term “self care” has joined the ranks of other terms that have been watered down, co-opted, or re-defined to the point that it means nothing.

I have noticed a concerning trend with self care, it has been used to manipulate, bully, and has been productized and sold. So I asked my friend and selfcare & resilience coach Stacy Fisher to join me and talk about the topic, and how you can find what works best for you. (without making a purchase!)

Remember, feelings are meant to be felt, not used against you to make you feal.

What you’ll hear on today’s episode:

• What is self care
• Patterns and Habits
• The self-care paradox
• How to spot manipulation
• The 8 dimensions of self care framework
• How to identify rhythms
• Daily rituals
• How MLM’s use personal development to manipulate
• Accepting what is
• Finding your own routine

Work with Lara:

Apply for an On-air Coaching Call!

Complimentary Breakthrough Consultation

Got a Question? Comment? Email [email protected]

Corporate Training

Difficult Happens by Lara Currie                       

Difficulthappens.com/workwithme/ 

Resources:

Series on Manipulation

Series on Assessments

Series on Conflict Personality-Types

Guest Resources:

Checkout Stacy’s website 

The self-care paradox blog post

© Lara Currie 2021

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