DINING WITH NADIVA Ep.85 Guest Host: Michael and Delise Diva Table Topic: Would you date a man that made less than you make? Word of the Day/ Definition: Acquiesce- (verb) to accept something reluctantly but without protest. Example Sentence: Michael will acquiesce to his wife, so they don’t argue over who is going to do the dishes after dinner. Stats: https://www.marketwatch.com/story/many-women-say-they-wont-date-a-man- over-this-one-financial-issue-2017-04-07 More than 1 in 5 women — 22% — say they wouldn’t date someone who makes less money than them, according to a new survey of 3,000 singles across the U.S. from dating company Plenty of Fish. That’s compared with just 4% of men and 11% of single people overall who said they wouldn’t date someone who makes less money than they do. The same study found 85% of singles tell the truth about how much they make. Another recent study from legal industry site Avvo found, and 58% in the same study said they would feel uncomfortable being the main breadwinner in a relationship. The breakdown varied by gender in that study as well: 69% of women said they’d be uncomfortable footing all the bills compared with 46% of men. Author Masini says “Men complain that they lose wealth to gold diggers,” and “Women want to protect their wealth.” But  women shouldn’t be too quick to judge, Masini says. “Someone who earns less may make a terrific partner,” she says. “If a woman with money is willing to give that a whirl.”  Scripture: 1 Timothy 5:8 8 But if anyone does not provide for his relatives, and especially for members of his household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever.

DINING WITH NADIVA Ep.84-85 Guest Host:  Delise and Michael Diva Table Topic: When do you move from dating to relationship status? Word of the Day/ Definition: agita ; a feeling of agitation or anxiety Example Sentence: The singer took a deep breath to dispel her agita as she stepped onstage or the man's agita was noticeable when his credit card was declined at the restaurant  Featured Restaurant:  Casa de Flora Owner: Jacqui Chaven Location: 75 Washington St, Bloomfield, NJ 07003 Store Hours: mon.-fri. 7am-6pm Phone: (973) 695-8381 Bio Next Card Bio:  The official trademark recipient of the “Sip & Clip,” Ritz Walton and her sister Ashley Gillett opened “Casa De Flora” on June 24th on Washington Street in Bloomfield, New Jersey. The first of its kind, The Floral Bar and Cafe is the perfect home for foodies and flower enthusiasts. The special menu features farm-to-table grab-and-go Organic Salads and Sandwiches, Baked Goodies, and Pastries. The robust selection of imported Colombian Coffees and Fresh Pressed Milks are a gourmet coffee lover’s dream. Mocktails rule on a hot summer day including “Lavender Love,” and “Prickly Pear Lemonade.” Surrounded by imported fresh flowers, customers can leave with custom stunning bouquets. The main attraction, the brainchild of “Ritz” is the infamous “Sip & Clip”- Bouquet Building at the Bar. Floral Workshops are a chance to bring out one’s  Featured Dishes:  Refreshing Drinks:  Prickly Pear Lavender Love Cucumber Mojito Mocktail Coffees/Tea:       French Press with Brazilian Coffee Bean Pink Latte - Exclusive for Breast Cancer Awareness Month  Lavender Latte (iced)        Hibiscus Ginger Hot Tea Cronuts:  Guava Cream Cheese Glazed Nutella Salads Chicken Caesar Salmon Cupcakes Cucumber Coconut  Blueberry Coffee Cupcake  inner artist, positive energy, and joy in a masterful living creation... all while sipping on a cocktail with friends. In 2018, Walton dreamt of combining her passion for flowers and Cafe culture with her love of educating others. Ritz watched from her Washington Street apartment as Ritz burned down in the fire of 2020 beside her Ritz-Walton Wedding Collection Showroom. She rebuilt during Covid, but Hurricane IDA swept through and destroyed Washington Street again. Today, “Casa De Flora” is a true testament that flowers bloom does after the storm. Commuters and neighbors will finally have their chance to sit down, have a drink and smell the roses.  Diva Table Topic: When do you move from dating to relationship status? Stats: https://www.insider.com • Having "the talk" means you're ready to make a relationship "official."  • Some couples simply slip into a committed relationship, whereas others need a direct conversation about it.  • According to a relationship expert, it's socially acceptable to broach the subject after two months.  • But some people will get to the stage earlier — it all depends how much time you're spending together, and how much of a good fit you are.  • If you're not sure, try introducing them to your friends and see how they react. Scripture: 2 Timothy 2:22  22 Flee the evil desires of youth and pursue righteousness, faith, love and peace, along with those who call on the Lord out of a pure heart.

Ep.83 Guest Host:  Delise and Michael Diva Table Topic: Why do men think pursuing a woman and chasing a woman is the same thing? Word of the Day/ Definition: conundrum; noun, an intricate and difficult problem. Very similar to having a dilemma. Example Sentence: The man was faced with a conundrum of trying to find a job without having experience or The cheating man had a real conundrum on his hands when his wife confronted him of his whereabouts Featured Restaurant:  Asante Owner: Na Na  Location: 1280 Teaneck Rd, Teaneck, NJ 07666 Store Hours: tue.-sun. 11am-9pm Phone: (201) 994-4404  Diva Table Topic: Why do men think pursuing a woman and chasing a woman is the same thing? Stats:  justinmcampbell.net Chasing conveys I can’t live without you, while pursuit conveys that while you could, you don’t want to.  Chasing says, “I sure hope you could like me”.  Pursuit says simply, “I’m interested in you.”  Chasing means trying to convince her to be with you.  Pursuit means trying to get to know her and then inviting her to be with you.  Chasing means following her around and doing everything she wants.  Pursuit means going somewhere and inviting her to come with you.  Chasing comes from a need to be loved   Pursuit comes from not needing her love but offering yours and she can take it or leave it.  Bio:  Featured Dishes: Scripture: “Desire without knowledge is not good, and whoever makes haste with his feet misses his way” (Proverbs 19:2).

DINING WITH NADIVA Ep.82 Guest Host:  Delise and Michael  Diva Table Topic: Why do women think men should pursue them? Word of the Day/ Definition: angst; noun, a feeling of deep anxiety or dread, typically an unfocused one about the human condition or the state of the world in general... in layman's terms - angst is a strong feeling of being worried or nervous Example Sentence: It is common for a freshman to feel angst as they prepare for the first day of school in their new high school  Bio: Cake Portraits Bakery & Studio is a multi-service brick and mortar bakery. Their bakery provides four premium services: Retail store front selling delicious baked goods such as assorted cupcakes, sliced cake and breads, assorted cheesecake cups, fruit cakes, assorted cookies and so much more. They also have an ice cream shop, where they offer 12 ice cream flavors, a variety of milkshakes and smoothies. Cake Portraits houses an event studio, hosting parties and social events is a must at this chic venue. Their fully- equipped kitchen serve as an incubation kitchen for businesses who are either in the start-up phase of planning or already established but does not have a home-based commercial kitchen to operate out of. Featured Restaurant:  Cake Portraits Owner: Cathy John Location: 1543 Teaneck Rd, Teaneck, NJ 07666 Store Hours: Mon.-Sun. 11am-8pm Phone: 201) 267-6318 This bakery specializes in catering and creating custom cakes for all occasions such as weddings, birthdays, and corporate event. They provide a unique line of delicious gourmet fruitcake treats such as fruitcake cookies, fruitcake brownies, and a variety of fruitcakes that come in traditional, gluten-free, vegan, whole wheat, and reduced-sugar. Their philosophy is “Quality and Taste Delivered in One Bite!” Featured Dishes:  Assorted Cupcakes Assorted Cheesecake Cups Assorted Chocolate Rum Balls Fruitcake Cookies, Cake Jars, & Cheesecake Cups Diva Table Topic:  Why do women think men should pursue them? Stats: http://www.quora.comFear - In some experiences and hearing the confessions from women, they are absolutely terrified to ask a man. The fear of him saying “No” completely dismantles these variety of women.  Control - Many men love the illusion that when they are the hunter, they are in control, however many men also do not realize this is just an illusion and that the control goes to the “hunted” and women realize this. As the “prey” women know they have the power to stop it at any time, they have the control and why would anyone want to give up control? Eyes on me -  many women have stated they love the attention and when a man is “hunting” them, their attention is focused on just them but on the woman’s terms, she can ghost him out for a couple days and claim it is all in the name of the hunt and when she wants that attention again, just flips the switch.  Value Increase - If a woman is being chased by a man, her social value among her peers and other women, even strangers increase and if one man is hunting her, she may even get the attention of another man because that man notices she is being wanted by another and this has sometimes spawned into a small competition for her and from there she has pretty much her pick from options. Scripture:  Matthew 6:33 KJV  But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.

DINING WITH NADIVA Ep.81 Guest Host: Delise and Christine Diva Table Topic: How many red flags does it take for you to walk away? Word of the Day/ Definition: Geld: To weaken or deprive of strength. Example Sentence: “Some old-timers will tell you that the horse w ill grow better if you wait until he's older to geld him, but I've found this isn't the case.” Featured Restaurant:  Cake Hustler LLC. Owner: Chris Pena Location: New York City Store Hours: Scheduling and appointments only Contact: IG- CakeHustlerLLC Featured Dishes: Original Tres Leches Nutella fudge Brownies Diva Table Topic: How many red flags does it take for you to walk away? Stats: RED FLAGS  20 Diversion Tactics Highly Manipulative    Narcissists, Sociopaths And Psychopaths Use To Silence You, Shahida Arabi  Being An Abusive Partner    Bullying     Child Abuse and Neglect    Cults     Depression     Domestic Violence     Economic Abuse     Educator Misconduct     Emotional Abuse     Human Tracking     Physical Abuse     PTSD     Bio:  Christopher Pena was born and raised in Harlem NYC where hardships turned determination. He was brought up in a Puerto Rican household with 3 orders brothers and mom and dad. Growing up life was not easy, but both my parents showed me what hard work aka a hustler hence the name cake hustler. The Cake Hustler LLC started from a passion of baking that led to what it is to today and what it will be in the future. Christopher’s dream is to open a bakery and have multiple food trucks around the country. It is a dream to be able to reach the masses with these delicious desserts. The biggest achievements that he is most proud of is being able to work with celebrities such as NFL players, Actors, Comedians and Social Media Influencers.   Sociopaths     Stalking     Suicide    Trauma Bonds and Other Trauma Reactions    Scripture: 2 Timothy 3:1-5 But mark this: There will be terrible times in the last days. People will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money, boastful, proud, abusive, disobedient to their parents, ungrateful, unholy, without love, unforgiving, slanderous, without self-control, brutal, not lovers of the good, treacherous, rash, conceited, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God—having a form of godliness but denying its power. Have nothing to do with such people.”

7 views Aug 21, 2022 DINING WITH NADIVA Ep.80 Guest Host:  Delise and Christine Diva Table Topic: Have you ever been catfished?  Word of the Day/ Definition: Zhoosh; to make something more exciting or attractive. Example Sentence: "the hat is a cool but economical way to zhoosh up many an outfit" Featured Restaurant:  A Bite of Heaven Owner: Tia Salomon  Location: Catering to the Tri-State area Store Hours: Mon.-Sat. 9am-5pm Phone: (201) 357-2801Diva Table Topic: Have you ever been Catfished? Stats: Review42.com 1. According to catfishing records, men are almost 25% more likely to fall victim to catfishing than women. It seems like, even though men make approximately 43% of potential victims targeted by cat fishers, they are more prone to believing fake personas on the internet. Around 20% of men who were catfished admitted that they were tricked more than five times! 2. More than half of the cat fishers, or 64% to be exact, are women. 3. To understand how common catfishing is, let’s start with the fact that 53% of Americans lie on their dating profiles. 4. Over 20% of women used pictures of themselves at a younger age on     Bio:  A Bite of Heaven Catering is a full-service catering and event planning company specializing in all facets of catering, including corporate catering, cocktail parties, weddings, and special events. Led by Executive Chef, Tia Salomon, their food reflects commitment to exceptional quality. Their goal is to provide delicious, natural options prepared with a passion for perfection. They serve elegant fare with a contemporary flair.  Featured Dishes:  Firecracker Salmon, Strawberry Mesclun Salad (contains nuts) and Margaret’s Pasta.   their dating profiles. 5. When it comes to why people catfish others, the most common answers are financial gain, revenge, and even curiosity and boredom. 6. Catfishing information reveals that the profile of a cat fisher may go from a person with low self-esteem to a downright sociopath. 7. 35% of catfish on the internet use catfishing for profit   Scripture:  Ephesians 5:66  Let no one deceive you with empty words, for because of such things God’s wrath comes on those who are disobedient.

Guest Host:  Michael and Delise Diva Table Topic: What's more important in a relationship, Chemistry or Character? Word of the Day/ Definition: Imperiled; Something that is at risk or jeopardized. Example Sentence: “The toxic fumes imperiled the lives of the trapped miners.” Featured Restaurant:  Whose Coffee? Owner: Shawn Zheng Location: 41 Park Pl, Englewood, NJ 07631 Store Hours: Mon.-Fri. 7:30am-5pm Sat.-Sun. 9:30am-5pm Phone: (201) 431-9172Bio:  Shawn, 25 Years old and Co-owner of Whose Coffee located in Englewood, NJ.  Has always dreamed to open a small coffee shop, since when he was young boy. After graduation from Binghamton University in 2020, Shawn was working for an insurance company and helping his family business. But after a while, he realized that an office job is not his thing and wanted more. To create something for himself while still having that passion. That’s when Shawn had the forethought of a shop with his friend Maxxie, 27; an accountant, who also shared the same dream. In 2021, both decided to quit their jobs and open Whose Coffee. Their goal is to provide a comfortable, relax and romantic space for people want to hang out with friend or studying/working. At WHOSE COFFEE, they serve high-quality coffee and teas.  And are aiming to let customers experience different coffee and teas around the world. More importantly, they want everyone that has different background and history to come and enjoy their coffee shop and service!  BIO ON NEXT CARD! Featured Dishes: Iced Matcha Latte Iced Mocha Latte Cold Brew Cappuccino Turkey & Cheese Sandwich Ham & Cheese Sandwich Chocolate Moses- chocolate mousse cake Mango Moses- mango mousse cake Their coffee beans are all single-origin and comes from different regions around the world. Like the Legendre from Brazil, used for most of their espresso-based coffee. It is medium-dark roasted, and it gives you a very smooth walnut and chocolate taste. Also, a bean used from Ethiopia called Sidamo for their House coffee. It has a fruitier taste and light bitterness. They’re proud owners of their signature pour over coffee, which uses two different types of beans. One is called Las Rosas from Guatemala. It is lightly roasted that comes with strawberry and star fruit taste. The other is from their original country-China. It is called Yunnan and this bean comes with floral taste. They serve more than just coffee. Whose Coffee has 8 different kinds of teas right now and their Matcha is imported from Kyoto, Japan. Included they have green tea and black teas that originated from China as well. They share a partnership with Balthazar Bakery, serving their delicious French pastries that are fresh and locally baked! Diva Table Topic: What's more important in a relationship, Chemistry or Character? Stats: https://jdgreear.com/choose-character...When it comes to relationships, our culture says physical attraction is everything. But according to the Bible, while chemistry matters—because God created it—it’s not everything.

DINING WITH NADIVA Ep.78 Guest Host:  Michael and Delise Diva Table Topic: How do you identify the expiration date in a relationship and Why do people stay past that date? Word of the Day/ Definition: Bedabble; To make something wet or dirty. Example Sentence: “After leaving the gallery, the model bedabbled in paint.” Featured Restaurant:  Urban Cone Owner: Dr. Jamar Chiles Location: 1943 US-22 Suite 2, Scotch Plains, NJ 07076 Store Hours: 3-10pm Mon.-Thu. Fri.-Sun. 12-12am Phone: (617) 997-2966Diva Table Topic: How do you identify the expiration date in a relationship and Why do people stay past that date? Stats: https://womenosophy.com/reasons-stay-...8 Reasons Why You Stay in Your Dead-End Relationship 1. You think you can’t live without him  The biggest and the most common reason why so many people stay in dead-end-relationships. Through the years of our cohabitation we’ve gathered infinitely many common memories, experiences, fun moments and I just had no will to give it up. This stuff is always so lovely that it holds us down like an anchor. Bio:  Dr. Jamar Q. Chiles was born and raised in New Jersey. He started The Urban Cone with the mission of “uniting the CULTURE and overcoming societal obstacles one CONE at a time.” His goal in life is to keep growing and keep challenging himself to be better than he was yesterday. (Featured Chef DIVA will ask more questions.) Featured Dishes: Queen & Slim- butter pecan ice cream topped w/ graham cracker dust, pretzels, sea salt, and caramel drizzle Killmonger- cookie dough ice cream topped w/ chocolate chips and henny caramel drizzle Forest Hill Drive- campfire s’mores ice cream topped w/ marshmallows, graham cracker dust, a Hershey bar.

Ep. 77 Guest Host: Serena and Delise Diva’s Table Topic: How many dates do you go on before you bring them home? Word of the day/ Definition: Denizen; Someone that frequents a place or is admitted the rights of citizenship. Example Sentence: “denizens of field and forest.”/ Synonym, inhabitants. Featured Restaurant: MaryKay Consultant Owners: Junita Gaddy Phone: 201 757-1700Contact: Email,  Hours: Anytime! Bio:  She is proud to be celebrating 29 years in Mary Kay Cosmetics. Recently she turned 66 and has never felt so good or looked so young. She offers personalized service that fits your needs. It could be Virtual or face to face. Just tell her if you’d like a one-on-one consultation, a party with friend or free anti-aging samples. If you prefer to shop online only or order by e-mail or phone, the choice is yours. She’d love to help you with any or all of your beauty needs. Contact HER TODAY! Diva’s Table Topic: How many dates do you go on before you bring them home? Stats: https://www.reddit.com Comments on Reddit: I’m a single mom so I’ve decided I won’t be inviting anyone over for a while. I’m talking months and when I’m pretty sure the relationship is going somewhere. I understand that some guys will have a problem with me only wanting to go to their place and if they disagree we can choose to not see each other anymore.  Yeah, usually after about date three, assuming I (male) ever get there, I’ll often ask if they want to do something on X day. Then if it’s yes I’ll offer to cook dinner for us. But I also try to give them an option to go out to eat or do something else as well in case they still arent comfortable being at someone’s home. And I know I can only speak for myself but for me the goal in not necessarily to initiate sex. I am legitimately trying to get to know people and think cooking a nice dinner is a good gesture.  Word of the Day/ Definition: Denizen; Someone that frequents a place or is admitted the rights of citizenship. Scripture: Proverbs 19:2 ESV / Desire without knowledge is not good, and whoever makes haste with his feet misses his way.

Ep. 76 Guest Host: Serena and Delise Diva’s Table Topic:  How do you feel a friend’s ex or family member? Word of the day/ Definition: Pillory; To expose to public ridicule or scorn. Example Sentence: “He found himself pilloried by members at his own party.” Featured Restaurant: Dippin Donuts Owners: Al, Deebo, Amir, and Ramsey Address:  677 Anderson Ave, Cliffside Park, NJ 07010 Hours: Mon-Sun 10am-9pm Phone: 201 402-0677Bio: Serving WARM FRESH made-to-order Doughnuts + Coffee, Ice cream & Milkshakes. Catering Available! Featured Dishes: Diva’s Table Topic: How do you feel a friend’s ex or family member?  Stats:  https://www.dnaindia.com Psychiatrist Dr Hemant Mittal believes that it’s easier to create a long-term happy relationship with your BFF’s sibling because you have a history and know them well. He adds, “Before entering such a relationship, it’s important to weigh in the pros and cons of such a decision. One has to realise that if things go south, your friendship is at stake and you may not have the support of your BFF when you really need them as they will be place in a difficult position — choosing you or their sibling’s side.”  Clinical psychologist Seema Hingorrany believes that this is a tricky situation to be in, and one needs to be very mature if they choose to go ahead with things. She adds, “If you have fallen for your BFF’s sibling, it’s best to let  them know first, to avoid any misunderstandings in the future. The plus is that you know them and their family and generally have a great equation with all. The flip side is sometimes if things are not handled maturely, it can cause rifts between friends.”  Scripture: Philippians 2:3 Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves.