I talk about what it means to share ideas publicly as a woman - particularly ideas that don't fit neatly into existing ideological frameworks. About the difference between being confusing and simply being unwilling to flatten complexity. About why I grew up comfortable being the only person in a room with a different worldview, and what that trained me to do.

In this episode I wanted to address that directly. And honestly.

I also talk about why I will not be caveating, performing, or dumbing down the conversation to make it more palatable. And what you can expect from this space going forward.

In this episode:

— Why growing reach often means growing misunderstanding - and why that doesn't change anything

— Why I grew up debating existential questions with strangers and what it taught me about holding my own thinking

— The difference between being confusing and being comfortable with complexity and nuance

— Why women's lived experience is data, not drama

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