Love is an invitation, so many times we receive invitations, we also give invitation . This is usually unspoken, delivered through out emotions and supporting action, the consistency or lack of. There are decisions to me made, deductions and frameworks. As you build your path strategy, think about what and where you want to go. Some invitations of others will either keep you away from your personal good, or not. Some invitations need a decline, even if the addiction to another person is strong. Start to leave the party friends or decline invitations of others friends.