We have all seen them. Those people who glide through life, surfing across what appears to others as angry, frightening waves of turmoil and angst. They appear totally confident and nothing gets in their way.

What is it that allows them to bypass the drudgery, confusion and chaos that seems to paralyse others?

As you watch them glide by, you notice admiringly how confident they are.

Confidence is not a thing innate within us. It is not a cloack you can grab from the cloaset and put on to cover and hide the self-doubt. Confidence is learned.