Disjointed

Once again we catch up with Doctor cum Stand up comedian, Kaushik.

Getting out of our society and going to a new place is gonna teach us so much. We’ll start realising how different people live around the world. A few people in our ‘society’ judge us for everything ! They wouldn’t know the whole story and they’ll call us with names. They have a certain way that they think is the right way to live. There’s no correct or wrong way to live in this world. You live to make yourself happy because no one is ever gonna actually ask you if you are even happy. The world wants to ask us ‘what are you studying’ , ‘when are you going to have a child’, ‘why are you in the house always’, ‘why aren’t you there in the house at all’, ‘how many marks did you score’… For God’s sake, would any gentleman or lady ask , ‘are you happy in life, beta?’. They won’t because they don’t give a shit about it. If you are 25, you got to be in a job and be ready to get married or else you are a useless boy. If you are 25 and you are going behind a dream that someone hasn’t gone behind they tend to think you are a hopeless person. First thing they ask is ‘ how are you going to be that’ they don’t ask ‘ how can I help you be that’ !

If someone else feels your dream is something too much, it means it’s ‘too much’ for them! Not for you. They are normal people who want to do normal safe things in life. Don’t let people who are scared to even dream tell you that your dream is too much.

My friend, if you dream to be it , go behind it no matter what! If you believe in yourself that’s more than enough to take you above all others. Don’t let people who feel they are right just because they are accepted by the society, make you feel like you aren’t right. You know your way , believe me ! You know what you are capable of. Others don’t need to believe in it. Once you have hit your dream, the people who put you down will tell the world how they met you. That’s people.

Cherish the moments , look around , smile!

Shriman Adhith

எங்கள் சிறப்பு நினைவுகள் அனைத்தும் முழுமையற்றவை, ஏனென்றால் நம்மில் ஒரு பகுதி இன்னும் அங்கே வாழ்கிறது! நாம் தொடர்ந்து செல்ல வேண்டும். அதுவே வாழ்க்கையின் சூத்திரம். ஒருபோதும் வருத்தப்பட வேண்டாம், எதுவும் சரியாக இல்லை, எதுவும் முழுமையடையவில்லை, முழுமையடையாமல் இருப்பது மிகவும் அழகாக இருக்கலாம். வாழ்க்கை!  •

Sometimes horrible things happen to good people. Life isn't fair and it can be heart wrenching, and if you're having one of those dark days, it's OK. It's OK. It's OK to feel that darkness when challenges and issues come back to back to back to back, and it seems like something is after me, something is attacking me, something is attacking my journey, look for the lesson. And at all you will grow through what you go through. The question is, are you willing to go through it? When those bad things happen. what are you going to do?  Are you going to let this horrible situation dictate the way you feel and the way you handle it? Are you going to fall over, fall down, fall apart? or Are you going to face this issue with courage and with resolution. You know, Darkness. Embrace. Embrace that darkness. don't look away from it. own it. Step up to the challenge no matter what you face. Start walking. Take that step. Every day, no matter what you are facing get up and start walking. And never surrender. And remember that even in the most wretched times when you faced darkness yourself, no matter how bad things get. Remember not to stop. Remember not to pause. Remember not to hesitate. Remember to put one foot in front of the other. Take that first step. And start walking and we will fight. And in fighting, we will win. And if not the battle and if not the war, we will win because our spirit, they will never surrender. and that Is the ultimate victory to hold your head high and even in the face of inescapable defeat. To stare and fight, that's to win. Don't allow yourself to switch off, but I know there's always an answer, no matter how dark that place, maybe it's always a way out just to keep going. Hold on to that fundamental quality of faith. Have faith and on the other side of your pain is something good.

Indeed, turning 21 and beginning to fill in as assistant director, I had the chance to see the world in a manner which others wouldn't have seen! We shoot in places where the vast majority could never acknowledge to step their foot at. It was same with me! Yet, when you step your foot on the spot you will truly see how honored we are in this reviled world.