In this uncensored, no-holding-back conversation, Fern Olivia sits down with Charlotte Vetter—an embodiment mentor and truth-teller who broke free from the looping narratives of "poor me" and "not enough" to reclaim her full feminine power. This episode is a deep dive into the shadows that keep women disempowered in their bodies and relationships—and how to flip the script for good.

Charlotte shares the journey of moving out of victimhood, embracing radical responsibility, and fully inhabiting her body from the inside out. Together, we explore how suppressed anger, subconscious beliefs, and collective wounds can silently sabotage intimacy—and how to rise, reclaim, and radiate from a place of truth.

What’s Inside This Episode:

• The victim loop: how Charlotte broke free from “poor me” and disempowered narratives
• What it means to embrace the underworld and rewire your thoughtware
• Integrating the entire body for full-spectrum embodiment
• Why anger is misunderstood—and how expressing it can be healing and holy
• The subconscious programming that blocks women from truly receiving love
• The truth about radical responsibility—and how it changes everything
• Healing collective resentment toward men and shifting narratives
• Creating safety in yourself and your relationships for true vulnerability
• Why the “love and light” facade is harming your growth
• The power of mentorship and neutral support for real relational co-creation
• Meeting your inner gremlin and taking back your power
• Releasing fawning, chasing, and validation-seeking—and showing up as the empowered woman you are

About Your Host, Fern Olivia

Fern walks the path of the wise woman—where ancient remembrance meets embodied leadership. A devoted student of the Earth and the unseen, she weaves together over a decade of experience in integrative health, trauma-informed somatic healing, and apprenticeships with master teachers in breathwork, sound healing, and energy work.

She is the founder of retreats and trainings, and Embodied Voice Breathwork®, a unique method of breathwork and somatic embodiment, to invite deep transformation through voice, ritual, movement, and stillness—where intuition is honored, the body is a temple, and the feminine is free to flow, feel, and flourish. (www.fernolivia.com) www.instagram.com/fernolivia

About Our Guest, Charlotte Vetter (@charlottevetter__)

Charlotte is a guide and way-shower for the revolutionary and evolutionary woman, here to light the way for those ready to step into their highest potential and leave their survival strategies behind.

As a Possibility Coach, Emotional Healer, and Evolutionary Astrologer, she is an activator for womankind, Charlotte embodies the essence of transformation and courage. She is devoted to holding space for women navigating their evolutionary edge—guiding them through profound transitions that alchemize pain, dissolve unconscious patterns, and release stuck emotions and shadows.

Her work is a portal into purpose, intimacy, and lineage restoration, helping women realign with their soul’s deepest calling, create meaningful relationships with men, and reclaim the aliveness and pleasure their hearts have always known is possible.

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