Divorce is something nobody wants to contemplate when saying "I do," yet half of all marriages in America eventually dissolve. Even more concerning is the rising trend of "gray divorces" – couples separating after age 50 and decades of marriage when retirement assets are substantial and division becomes complex.

When marriages end after 25+ years, the financial untangling reaches a different magnitude of complexity. Retirement accounts that grew throughout your relationship must now be divided properly, or the consequences can haunt your financial future for decades. One misstep with a 401(k) division or pension split could cost tens of thousands in taxes, penalties, or lost assets.

The division process differs dramatically depending on the type of account. Employer plans require specialized Qualified Domestic Relations Orders (QDROs) that many attorneys handle incorrectly, while IRAs follow completely different "transfer incident to divorce" procedures. I walk through how to navigate these differences, sharing insider tips like using the templates major recordkeepers now provide to save thousands in legal fees and prevent costly errors. I also cover the crucial but often neglected post-divorce financial hygiene – updating beneficiaries, removing ex-spouses from accounts, and revising powers of attorney.

Whether you're facing divorce yourself or supporting someone who is, understanding these financial mechanisms can protect retirement security during an already difficult life transition. Check our Facebook page for downloadable checklists to share with your attorney and ensure nothing falls through the cracks during this critical financial restructuring.

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