I don't believe that "Things happen for a reason" when people say it loosely. I believe that "things happen for a reason... Because God..." When something tragic happens to us, we have to see the path ahead of us, we have to find the beginning of it and walk it. We have to understand that we are all God's children and we are all going through life TOGETHER. We must lift each other up so others will have the strength to lift us up when we need it! The tongue has the power of life and death, and those who love it will eat its fruit. Proverbs 18:21