This question gets asked a lot in the world of anxiety and depression. Is there anything wrong with you or do you just have to "deal with it" and "suck it up"? The lines can get blurred between where you are and where you should be. Ayelet had lived in this exact position for far too long, to the point that that pain became all she really knew. The question she asked to help her get out of it was simple yet powerful, "Do I want to stay like this?". Now it's time for you to ask yourself that same question.