Long as it has positive vibes and great impact in yours and your loved ones' lives and/or greater community, Do it anyway. Regardless of the discomfort it causes people, the haters it attracts, being misunderstood, and causing all sorts of rumors about you, do the good anyway. Your best will never be enough, your presence may be loathed and your beauty condemned; the expectation is that you shrink yourself and the purpose you are meant to fulfill in your time parked just so you are acceptable and correct. Do it anyway, you only die once.