Yes we can desire to do something with love, to do all things with love, but ultimately we’ve got to practice doing everything with love so that it becomes the new routine. We need to unlearn our old ways of doing things scornfully and hatefully and with our egos out front and we need to learn to do it with love upfront and expect the best in every situation whether it’s your personal interactions, your physical and mental health, relationships, finances, etc. Being optimistic and receptive is the only way to win.