As the saying goes, no one is coming to save you. Unless you do not realise... life has already been pushing you to do much yourself. There are things we don't do though we get stuck on the entitlement, the need and desperation for someone else to come do for us, with us or push you because either you can't or won't make that step into achieving what you want to achieve. You have to be as aggressive as your resistance, discomfort or confusion... do it afraid they say, do it uncomfortable, take the first step even if you don't see the whole staircase. Don't fall victim to the victim syndrome.. just because you have to do it yourself does not mean you are a victim, are abandoned or that life has something against you. Be proud of that step, be brave in that vulnerability and be hopeful of a great outcome. Trust the process of becoming.