Do The Thing Dating Experiment

Can setting boundaries in the dating world really lead to deeper emotional connections? Join us as we sit down with Katy Clark, also known as Dating With Katy, a luxury matchmaker and dating coach, who takes us through her fascinating transformation from matchmaking to coaching. Katy sheds light on the crucial aspects of navigating sexual expectations in relationships, emphasizing the importance of trust and emotional connections before physical intimacy. Her expert insights and actionable advice will help singles understand the risks of casual sex and the significance of mutual commitment in forming lasting relationships.Ever wondered how to master the art of flirtation and create a memorable first date? Katy and I break down the playful side of dating, discussing everything from witty banter and subtle compliments to the power of physical proximity. We share tips on how to keep your dates light-hearted and engaging, ensuring you leave a lasting impression and secure that elusive second date. Moreover, we dive into the nuances of dating etiquette and preparation, offering fashion advice for men and tips for both genders to enhance their dating profiles and boost confidence.Dating in the digital age can be exhausting, but Katy provides practical strategies to manage online dating fatigue effectively. We discuss the importance of maintaining a relaxed approach in the early stages of dating and handling rejection with grace. From setting time limits on app usage to personal anecdotes about meeting partners in unexpected ways, this episode is packed with valuable insights. Katy also shares advice on creating standout dating profiles and the benefits of participating in community gatherings to meet potential matches. Tune in to discover strategies that will transform your dating life and help you find quality connections.(00:01) Navigating Sexual Expectations in Dating(08:17) Mastering Flirty and Fun Dating(15:42) Dating Tips and Fashion Advice(25:52) Finding Quality Connections in Dating(34:27) Dating Etiquette and Boundaries(44:49) Enhancing Dating Profiles and Flirting(54:08) Diverse Matchmaking Database and Community

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Dr. Jennie Young, a leading professor of English and authority in critical discourse analysis, shares her groundbreaking approach to online dating in our latest episode. Discover how her "Burned Haystack Dating Method" transforms the typical experience by encouraging authenticity and exclusivity in your dating profile. Contrary to conventional wisdom, Dr. Young's method emphasizes setting clear boundaries to attract quality matches, drawing on both her academic background and personal journey through the world of dating apps.We tackle the intricacies of creating and managing a dating profile with intention, from dodging clichés to selecting genuine photos and focusing on unique traits. Dr. Young also highlights her thriving grassroots Facebook community, providing a supportive space for those wary of dating apps. Together, we dissect common pitfalls, decode linguistic clues, and discuss why treating dating apps as tools rather than addictive platforms can change your online dating game.Navigating the rules of efficient online dating is another pillar of our conversation, offering actionable strategies to avoid unproductive arguments and prioritize real-life interactions. Understand the concept of the "ludic loop," and learn to sidestep the endless scroll trap. We also underscore the importance of community support, celebrating the diverse, inclusive network fostered by the Burned Haystack Method. Tune in for practical advice, compelling insights, and the encouragement to approach online dating with renewed confidence and intention.(00:01) Hacking the Dating Algorithm(07:59) Effective Dating Profile and Management Strategies(13:19) Decoding and Managing Online Dating(21:43) Navigating Rules for Efficient Online Dating(32:55) Building a Supportive Community for Dating(43:07) Community Support for Dating Success

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  Kevin McLemore the Author of Dating with a Full Deck came in and went LIVE in the Do The Thing Community

We are going to talk about all of the things !! Dating, Red Flags, Dealbreakers, and how to get your last first date !!

Are you ready to redefine your dating game and embrace your sexy confidence? Join us as we unpack the journey of remarkable dating strategist, Kimmy Seltzer, who shares her transformative voyage from fears of flirting to becoming a dating maven. Kimmy's story is as engaging as it is empowering; she talks about her personal "red dress moment" post-divorce and how that sparked a new sense of self and empowerment within her. It's not just a journey; it's a voyage towards self-discovery, confidence and love.

As our conversation with Kimmy progresses, we delve into the marvellous world of her Charisma Quotient formula - a unique approach to creating a powerful initial impression. We explore the intricate web of inner and outer confidence, the fear of being seen and how breaking away from patterns can pave the way to healthier relationships. You'll find yourself intrigued, inspired, and ready to make a significant change.

We wrap up our episode with Kimmy by discussing the art of authentic dating and sharing some fun and effective flirting tips. We'll chat about the role of both genders in being approachable and how body language can affect it. Plus, you'll hear a success story of a woman who regained her confidence and found love after two decades of not dating. Listen in, and get ready to truly embrace your sexy confidence and attract the love you deserve!(00:01) Authentic Dating Strategist Shares Transformative Journey

(06:01) Finding Confidence Through a Red Dress

(12:06) The Power of Being Seen

(23:22) Tips for Flirting and Approaching Others

(32:07) Authenticity and Confidence in Dating

(44:02) Thank You and Farewell

Ever wonder how a special education teacher balances work, love and personal growth? Meet our vivacious Do the Thing community member, Fontilla, who has been navigating the world of dating for 15 years after becoming a widow. Listen as she shares her poignant journey, highlighting a self-awareness that shapes her into the partner she wishes to find. Fontilla's love for a structured life sprinkled with spontaneous adventures showcases her multifaceted personality.

What's keeping you from finding the love you deserve? Our conversation with Fontilla takes a deep dive into the potential barriers in the pathway of love and how an open and honest approach can facilitate a smoother journey. Fontilla's dream of an ideal date, a spontaneous road trip to an undisclosed destination, underscores the importance of mystery and excitement in a relationship. We also discussed the importance of structure and fun in a relationship, highlighting Fontilla's love for hiking and picnics, giving us a glimpse of her playful side.

Ever imagined the perfect partner? We too! Join us as we reflect on the qualities we desire in our future companions - tall, rugged, and kind, someone who understands and supports us. As we wrap up our chat with Fontilla, we introduce her to an exciting new podcasting opportunity. A unique blend of serious discussions and light-hearted conversations, we assure you this episode of the Dating Experiment isn't just another dating podcast but a journey through the world of love, personal growth and self-care. We look forward to having you join us and here's to finding love and new adventures in the dating world!(00:01) Dating Experiment and Finding a Partner

(11:14) Obstacles to Relationship and Ideal Dates

(19:47) Reflections, Fun, and Future Relationships

(31:30) Discovering a New Podcast Opportunity

Divorce happens, but it's never too late to start dating again. Will you enter the dating scene with an overflowing cup of self-love and awareness, or are you coming from a place of depletion and exhaustion?

Get to know two friends, Mike Scott and Andrea. Dating as adults was a journey neither expected, and it was nothing like when they were teenagers. But after experiencing divorce, they each had to rediscover themselves before connecting with someone else, figuring out the "rules" of dating on their own terms.

Here are the helpful—sometimes surprising—lessons Mark and Andrea learned during their dating journeys.  

Testing the dating waters again? Be on the lookout for the next Do The Thing Dating Challenge.

Friends are worth their weight in gold. But how do you make the shift from friendship to a romantic relationship? And is it worth the risk? 

Today, we'll introduce you to Scott Glenn. No longer single, he has firsthand experience turning a friendship into something more. And now, he wants to share his nuggets of wisdom with those in the singles community who want to do the same. Tired of being friend-zoned and ready to see if the spark is mutual? This show is a must-hear! Scott's experience and knowledge will empower you to traverse the journey from friends to dating. 

Here's how Scott got out of the friend zone and his advice for helping others do the same. 

Join me as I embark on a unique dating experiment with Jeremy, a 44-year-old father of two. In this episode, Jeremy and I delve into the importance of genuine connections and the challenges of modern dating. Jeremy shares his journey of self-discovery and the transformation that led him to value his own goals and aspirations. They discuss the need for honesty and vulnerability in relationships, while exploring Jeremy's interests in landscape lighting and his passion for cornhole. Discover Jeremy's vision for his future partner and his ideal date, all while reflecting on the evolving dynamics of dating in today's society. Tune in for heartfelt conversations and insightful perspectives on finding love in a world that often prioritizes superficial connections. 

Everyone has different values and interests. Is it possible to find a partner who aligns with what matters to you the most? 

Today you'll meet Nicole Cush, a high school principal with an adventurous side ready to enrich her life with the right companion. Nicole is a passionate educator and motorcycle enthusiast with an unyielding zest for life. And now, she wonders what the future will bring as she embarks on a quest to find love. 

Here's why Nicole believes in drawing clear boundaries and maintaining open communication as you embrace new experiences. 

Interested in getting to know Nicole better? Shoot her an email at [email protected].  

When a relationship ends, venturing into the world as a "party of one" can be uncomfortable. What if you rediscovered yourself and stepped into the dating scene with a new sense of confidence? 

Today, you'll meet Meg, a former social worker and therapist entering her third act. Transitioning to life after a long-term marriage meant exploring new territory alone. But after unleashing her creative side and revealing her authentic self, Meg realized she was unstoppable. She now marches to her own drum and wants to find a compatible match during this chapter of her life. 

Here's why Meg is embracing her inner maverick to find a partner willing to explore without limitation. 

Want to be part of Meg's third act? Email her at [email protected] — no strings attached!