When things don't seem to go our way we often whinge and complain. But notice that when you refocus on what you love in your life you stop complaining and all is well. What you focus on defines your life, in good times and in bad…the amplifying loud speaker of the happy or the sad. It's not easy but it really is up to you...choose bitterness and complain, or see the good around you and lean into happiness again.