The pressures of being single and in your 30's can be stressful for the males and especially for the females. We discuss why Foreign Africans come under pressure from family and friends when they are in their 30's and where these expectations come from. We also discuss the female's perspective on companionship and child-bearing and how it plays a role in influencing their choices and barriers it also creates in their mind. We are joined by Danny, Catherine, and Alex who also share their experiences and some personal stories on how we can overcome those unnecessary burdens and barriers associated with being single at a certain age while we focus on developing ourselves and enjoying everyday life.