Kristen Lam (@kristengracelam) and I met in LA two years ago, and we got the chance to reconnect here in New York. We went IN on all the fun dating questions - is there such thing as "the one"? Does playing hard to get work? How important is sex in a relationship? As always, if you have any questions you want us to discuss, send them my way on Instagram (@estherys) 

Episode 24: Do you believe in "the one"?

Chat "on the floor" with Esther and her various guests as they process the all-too-familiar thoughts and feelings that come with being a young adult. New episode biweekly on Wednesdays! For business inquiries, please email esther.sim888@gmail.com. ☆ INSTAGRAM: https://bit.ly/35iTsEo ☆ YOUTUBE: https://bit.ly/3wL00YD

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I've definitely been guilty of being the "clingy" girlfriend. Hana (@hanaylee) and I talk about how we broke out of that pattern and how we learned to value independence in relationships. If you have any questions you want me to discuss with my guests, send them my way on Instagram (@estherys) 

Episode 25: “You’re too clingy”

I finally got the chance to meet the voice behind one of my favorite songs, Haerin Jang (seriously, if you haven't listened to Sugar yet, go stream it right now : http://spoti.fi/3uCXoMf). She had such a relatable and inviting yet hilariously sarcastic demeanor during our conversation about work-life balance, toxic friendships, loneliness, dating, and more! You can find her on IG @haerherehaer ❤️ P.S. Thank you Athena Club for sponsoring this episode! For 20% off your first order, use code ON...

Episode 23: Rule #1 when it comes to toxic friends

I invited Daisy Pyo (@daisypyo), a freelance graphic designer, to pick her brain about what it was like to leave her corporate 9-to-5 job and go freelance, but in true OTF fashion, we ended up getting pretty deep (lol). P.S. Thank you Athena Club for sponsoring this episode! For 20% off your first order, use code ONTHEFLOOR at https://www.athenaclub.com/. ☆ INSTAGRAM: https://bit.ly/35iTsEo ☆ YOUTUBE: https://bit.ly/3kmMfcD

Episode 22: The power of manifestation

With Inauguration Day last week, I thought it was an appropriate time to share my story as a DACA (Deferred Action for Childhood Arrivals) recipient. My good friend Hiseo (@hiseolee) joined me to share a little bit about our experience as DREAMers – from constantly feeling like we're in limbo to the pressure of feeling like marriage is our only way out. ☆ Intro by @nomadic__music. Check out his music here: https://spoti.fi/3lvmzKF ☆ MY INSTAGRAM: https://bit.ly/35iTsEo ☆ YOUTUBE: https://bit....

Episode 24: Do you believe in "the one"?

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