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In this episode of Taking the Tov Way, MJ reflects on one of the most personal and powerful moments in the Gospels—Jesus’ conversation with Peter in John 21. After Peter’s denial during Jesus’ trial, we find him back where it all began: fishing. But Jesus doesn’t leave Peter in his failure. Instead, He restores him through a deeply intentional exchange: “Do you love me?”
MJ opens up about her own connection to Peter—his passion, his boldness, and his tendency to speak (and act) before thinking. Like Peter, we can all find ourselves stuck in shame, wondering if God could still use us after our mistakes. Through Scripture, we see that Jesus not only forgives but also calls us forward into purpose.
This episode walks through how Jesus’ three questions to Peter mirror the three denials, how His instructions to “feed my sheep” reveal our calling, and how repentance restores intimacy with God. It’s a reminder that God’s love doesn’t just cover the past—it commissions us for the future.
Along the way, MJ dives into the necessity of letting go, forgiving with discernment, and trusting God’s direction for reconciliation. She challenges listeners to consider their own response to Jesus’ question: “Do you love me?”
Scriptures Referenced:
* John 21 — John’s Restoration
* Luke 24 — we learn Jesus appears to Peter
* Romans 8 — Nothing can separate us from the love of Christ..
* Matthew 18 — Peter asks how many times we should forgive.
* Love in Action
* John 3:16, He gave…
* Romans 5:8, He died..
* 1 John 4:9, He sent…
* Hebrews 9:26, He appeared once for all.
* 1 John 3:16, He laid down His life for us.
* 1 Peter 3:18, He suffered..
* Isaiah 53, He was pierced and crushed for our transgressions and our iniquities.
* Ephesians 2:4-5, He made us alive with Christ.
* Isaiah 55:8 “‘For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways My ways,’ declares the Lord.“ (Consider reading entire chapter.)
* Matthew 18:22–35
* Ephesians 4:32
* Matthew 6:14–15
* Matthew 22:36–40.
* Deuteronomy 6:1-8
Key Takeaways
* Jesus doesn’t just forgive—He restores and re-commissions.
* Our failures don’t disqualify us; they can prepare us to shepherd others with compassion.
* Repentance is not just about turning away from sin but turning fully toward Jesus.
* Love for Christ is best demonstrated through obedience and service.
* God’s calling on your life remains, even when you’ve fallen short.
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By Getting Back to the Good LifeIn this episode of Taking the Tov Way, MJ reflects on one of the most personal and powerful moments in the Gospels—Jesus’ conversation with Peter in John 21. After Peter’s denial during Jesus’ trial, we find him back where it all began: fishing. But Jesus doesn’t leave Peter in his failure. Instead, He restores him through a deeply intentional exchange: “Do you love me?”
MJ opens up about her own connection to Peter—his passion, his boldness, and his tendency to speak (and act) before thinking. Like Peter, we can all find ourselves stuck in shame, wondering if God could still use us after our mistakes. Through Scripture, we see that Jesus not only forgives but also calls us forward into purpose.
This episode walks through how Jesus’ three questions to Peter mirror the three denials, how His instructions to “feed my sheep” reveal our calling, and how repentance restores intimacy with God. It’s a reminder that God’s love doesn’t just cover the past—it commissions us for the future.
Along the way, MJ dives into the necessity of letting go, forgiving with discernment, and trusting God’s direction for reconciliation. She challenges listeners to consider their own response to Jesus’ question: “Do you love me?”
Scriptures Referenced:
* John 21 — John’s Restoration
* Luke 24 — we learn Jesus appears to Peter
* Romans 8 — Nothing can separate us from the love of Christ..
* Matthew 18 — Peter asks how many times we should forgive.
* Love in Action
* John 3:16, He gave…
* Romans 5:8, He died..
* 1 John 4:9, He sent…
* Hebrews 9:26, He appeared once for all.
* 1 John 3:16, He laid down His life for us.
* 1 Peter 3:18, He suffered..
* Isaiah 53, He was pierced and crushed for our transgressions and our iniquities.
* Ephesians 2:4-5, He made us alive with Christ.
* Isaiah 55:8 “‘For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways My ways,’ declares the Lord.“ (Consider reading entire chapter.)
* Matthew 18:22–35
* Ephesians 4:32
* Matthew 6:14–15
* Matthew 22:36–40.
* Deuteronomy 6:1-8
Key Takeaways
* Jesus doesn’t just forgive—He restores and re-commissions.
* Our failures don’t disqualify us; they can prepare us to shepherd others with compassion.
* Repentance is not just about turning away from sin but turning fully toward Jesus.
* Love for Christ is best demonstrated through obedience and service.
* God’s calling on your life remains, even when you’ve fallen short.
Get full access to The Tov Way | A Christian Blog about The Good Life God's Way at thetovway.substack.com/subscribe