I once read an interesting book on motivation by John Capozzi entitled: “If you want the rainbow . . . You gotta put up with the rain!” I believe this to be true. It has been my experience that most people who do not succeed, do not understand this concept and at the first sign of trouble quit and accept their defeat . . . https://www.wordsfortheday.com/index.php/2021/04/do-you-push-or-pull-2/