In the scripture, it clearly says that YAH's ways are higher than our thoughts and his ways is higher than our ways so I don't see how we get to choose what sin deserves death from what doesn't. We're still compromising faith using our desires and limited understanding, thinking that we can somehow offer YAH counsel. Let's put ourselves in his shoes for a moment and see if we would like it if someone tries to tell us how to live our lives and/or raise our children when they are failures themselves.