Once you have accepted your faults no one can use them against you, and so an honest and thorough personal inventory is the most liberating thing you can do. More than that, accept your faults and YOU can’t use them against you, an honest and thorough knowledge of self is the most liberating thing you can do. Take a good look at how you can improve, the parts that need some love and care, write down an inventory of deep personal truth and begin to heal and repair.