Do you talk bad about your child's mama? Daddy? If they were good enough to sleep with you, why talk bad about the other parent? I read a post that said "If your baby daddy ain't nothing, what qualifications did he meet to get it in the first place?" 

-I used to wonder why people talked bad about their baby mama/daddy 

-I promised myself to never talk bad about my ex wife because I married her and slept with her  

-What does that say about you? You slept with him/her. You got them pregnant This applies to men and women. Y'all sleep with people way too fast and don't even know him/her. Dudes be like "I strap up" but after having intercourse a couple of times, the condom comes off. At least know the status of your "situationship" are you both monogamous? Are y'all sleeping with other people?  

-If you both don't know y'all status and just hanging and banging both of you are at risk for STI's and possibly pregnancy