Are you grasping tightly to something beyond control? Gripping the world's steering wheel whilst letting your best spoil?  Spilt milk, others' choices, technology shifts and trends are all beyond your immediate control but should not spell the end.  Seize the chance to leap ahead as one that sees the shift, clench your hand around changing now, accept the strain and lift. Acceptance means fluidity and going with the flow, using your energy where it is free and needed most.