Face your fears and take as many shots as you can, take many chances. Say yes to whatever that you are afraid of. You can only grow if you face your fears. Yes you will fail a lot, yes you will miss a lot of shots, but you will also have more chances of success. You will encounter many ‘no’ in your life, but the final ‘YES’ will make all the ‘NO’ worthy to endure.
The main reason that you say no to yourself is because of fear. But you know who really is the greatest enemy? YOU! We often talk ourselves out of many opportunities. We let the opportunities paralyze us. But the good news is that you can control and make decisions to face what scares you.