I’ve been told that Be the Change in Your Marriage as a name is triggering and sets off feminist “alarm bells”.  Let’s talk about this.  I find it extremely interesting that the name should have this effect given that it’s widely accepted as fact that it isn’t possible to change another person, and you can only change yourself. Therefore, “being the change” in a relationship of two, is really the only possible course of change.  Isn’t it?

But let’s explore why the name may feel problematic. I can certainly understand if you’re inwardly saying, “I already carry the whole household, my to do list is never ending, and now you want me to be the change in my freaking marriage, too?  Why can’t he do something about it for a change?”

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