Many Christians often pray this prayer: God use me! I myself have prayed this prayer, especially when I were in my teens.

One of the reasons was that I were afraid that I could not be used for anything, and I attached my identity to what I could do and to be used for.

I have a nine months old daughter (when I write this) and I love her over all on this earth.

But my thoughts are not this: What can I use my daughter for, or what can she do for me?

Had I been thinking so, I would have been a selfish, self-seeking and evil father.