When I talk about self trust a lot of people think it means feeling incredible all the time when it’s literally the opposite.

If I wanted to feel good all the time my life would look WHOLLY different.

The journey to radical self trust often feels hard, and heavy and sometimes makes you think “This is HORRIBLE!”, and sometimes you just don’t want to feel the feels which is why support along the way is so so so important.

Self trust means that even when you have to make a decision that ultimately disappoints your kids, you don’t have to spend hours in mind drama about whether it means youre a horrible mother

Self trust means that when you have a good idea to present at work you don’t need to spend weeks keeping it to yourself because you’re not confident that other people will think it’s that good (until someone else presents it)

Self trust means that you can take the bad with the good knowing that it’s part of the human experience not evidence that you’re supremely screwed up in some way that you need to start working on immediately

Self trust means you get to actually be YOU in every sense of the word, not the “work version” and “mom version” and “Socially acceptable first kids playdate version”

It means sometimes feeling horrible and sometimes feeling incredible but skipping the part where you beat yourself up over or define yourself by either

It means actually getting to excel at what matters most to you without having to focus on what matters to EVERYONE and trying to do all it.

It means freedom, and it’s for you too if you want it