Doggy Style Podcast

Hey guys! We wanted to let you know we've moved. In this episode we talk about what happened to Doggy Style and how you can listen to our new podcast The Not So Perfect Couple Podcast.

Make sure to head over there and click subscribe, rate, and review...and lets continue to be the man behind the woman behind the man...as the Not So Perfect Couple!

Can't wait to see you there!

Sex Every Other Weekend with Alissa Daire Nelson and Joel Nelson 

In this episode, Sam, Pat, Alissa and Joel discuss:  

·        Remarried with children.  

·        How to serve, honor and respect your spouse.  

·        Finding harmony with totally different personalities. 

·        How to decipher anger and irritation. 

·        Just say yes to sex! 

Key Takeaways:  

·        Take care of yourself emotionally before getting back in the saddle with dating and remarriage. 

·        You must take responsibility for your actions to be a better spouse, especially after divorce. 

·        Don’t say corrosive things about your spouse to your friends, it’s unproductive and destructive.  

·        Love is unconditional respect and acceptance. Alissa would like to talk to Oprah about love. 

"Everyone brings their shit, whether it’s being single for fifteen years or going through a divorce." — Joel Nelson Quote  

Connect with Guest:   

Twitter: @daire2succeed 

Instagram: @alissadairenelson    

Website: www.daire2succeed.com    

Book: www.daire2succeed.com/the-book-2 

Show: www.daire2succeed.com/frickinawesomeentrepreneur 

Connect with Sam and Pat:  

Twitter: @BiggerLoveBook  

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BiggerLoveBook  

Website: http://www.biggerlove.com/   

Book: Bigger Love- How to have the love of your life for the rest of your life  

Show notes by show producer: Laura Gray 

Audio production by Turnkey Podcast Productions. You're the expert. Your podcast will prove it.   

Make a Love List, Check it Twice with Jim and Jamie Sheils   

In this episode, Sam, Pat, Jim and Jamie discuss:   

·        How time management effects the family.  

·        The List of qualities you desire in your future spouse.   

·        Learning together as a couple. 

·        How to deepen your connection with your spouse.    

Key Takeaways:   

·        Family time should always be a priority. 

·        Never stop learning about your partner and with your partner. 

·        Love is the cornerstone of a healthy family. 

·        “A genuine desire to be my best self, and for him to be his best self.” -Jamie and “Continuing to grow together.” -Jim  

"If you have thirty minutes, you don’t have to have five weeks, you can focus thirty minutes." — Jamie   

Connect with Guest:       

Instagram: @18summerstribe     

Website: 18Summers.com  

Email: [email protected]  

Connect with Sam and Pat:   

Twitter: @BiggerLoveBook   

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BiggerLoveBook   

Website: http://www.biggerlove.com/    

Book: Bigger Love- How to have the love of your life for the rest of your life   

Show notes by show producer: Laura Gray   

Audio production by Turnkey Podcast Productions. You're the expert. Your podcast will prove it.  

Love is Presence with Traci & David Osborn 

In this episode, Sam, Pat, Traci and David discuss: 

·         Choosing the relationship first over fights and whatever else may come up. 

·         Meeting your own needs and being responsible for your own happiness. 

·         Tips for maintaining a successful relationship while also shooting for higher levels of success in your professional life. 

·         Finding time to spend with your family and making it count. 

Key Takeaways: 

·         Don’t try and make your partner be something other than who they are. 

·         Book in family time and be as present as possible during those times. 

·         Don’t try and escalate a heated situation when you’re in reactionary mode. 

·         Be willing to get help when you need it, there are a lot of resources out there to assist you. 

·         Love is presence – it is being there for someone in the capacity they need you to be. 

"A relationship is a hard thing; it’s a beautiful thing. The deeper and longer you go, even though it gets harder, the rewards get better and better." — David Osborn 

Connect with David and Traci: 

Website:  DavidOsborn.com & TheGoalTemplate.com 

Book: Wealth Can’t Wait & Miracle Morning Millionaires 

References: 

·         His Needs, Her Needs: Building an Affair-Proof marriage by Willard F. Harley, Jr. 

·         Leadership and Self-Deception: Getting out of the Box by The Arbinger Institute 

·         Moment App 

Connect with Sam and Pat: 

Twitter: @BiggerLoveBook 

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BiggerLoveBook 

Website: http://www.biggerlove.com/ 

Book: Bigger Love- How to have the love of your life for the rest of your life 

Show notes by show producer: Chelsea Taylor-Sturkie 

Audio production by Turnkey Podcast Productions. You're the expert. Your podcast will prove it. 

Interested in a More Fulfilling Sex Life? With Jaiya

In this episode, Sam and Jaiya discuss:

• What it means to be a somatic (body based) sexologist and how Jaiya got into the field.
• The importance of a real, healthy sex conversations and education.
• Jaiya's Erotic Blueprints which identify your sexual language - like Dr. Chapman's 5 Love Languages but for sex.
• Questions from Doggy Style Listeners!

Key Takeaways:

• Most people initiate sex in their own, primary blueprint.
• There are many kinds of orgasms. You are not broken if you don’t have any of them, but anything is possible and you can learn to have all of them!
• Different sexual challenges can keep things going – 90 days of oral, 40 days of kink, 7 days of sex every day, or even Sam and Paddy's '30-Day Just Say Yes to Sex Challenge.' Give one a try and see what happens.
• Have a daily pleasure practice, pertaining to your blueprint, and find what turns you on.

"[Love is] keeping my heart open when I want to close it, caring for each other's distress, when you feel like you're home and you create safety for each other rather than triggering each other." — Jaiya

Discover your Blueprint: www.eroticbreakthrough.com/doggystyle

Connect with Jaiya:

Twitter:  @JaiyaNWSE

Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/JaiyaNWSE/

Instagram: missjaiya

Connect with Sam and Pat:

Twitter: @BiggerLoveBook

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BiggerLoveBook

Website: http://www.biggerlove.com/

Book: Bigger Love- How to have the love of your life for the rest of your life

Show notes by show producer: Chelsea Taylor-Sturkie

Audio production by Turnkey Podcast Productions. You're the expert. Your podcast will prove it. 

The Pirate Ship of Love with Jon & Tatyana Vroman 

In this episode, Sam, Pat, Jon and Tatyana discuss: 

• Tatyana's podcast debut! 
• What Jon and Tatyana have learned about themselves over the course of their 10+ year relationship (patience). 
• Benefits of afternoon sex and also morning sex. 
• Being authentic and allowing your partner to be their authentic selves. 
• Parenting the best you can in the situation now – it’s never too late to be a great parent. 

Key Takeaways: 

• Weekly dates aren't realistic for everyone, but planned time alone together is crucial. 
• With arguments – it’s timing over topic. 
• Whoever is the least triggered in an argument is the one responsible for healing the conversation. 
• Your relationship with your partner needs to be priority #1 if you want to be a great parent. 
• You can't be everything for your partner and that is not a problem. 
• At the heart of it, love is patience. 

"Anything that happens, it’s worth keeping this marriage going. Even if it’s hard, and difficult, and makes no sense, there is a reason why we are together. And it’s a huge reason." — Tatyana Vroman 

Mentions: Hal Elrod, Mike McCarthy, Esther Perel 

Connect with Guest: 

Twitter:  @jonvroman 

Facebook:  Jon Vroman, Tatyana Vroman 

Website:  FrontRowDads.com 

Book: The Front Row Factor: Transform Your Life with The Art of Moment Making 

Show: Front Row Factor, Front Row Dads 

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jonvroman/ 

Connect with Sam and Pat: 

Twitter: @BiggerLoveBook 

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BiggerLoveBook 

Website: http://www.biggerlove.com/ 

Book: Bigger Love- How to have the love of your life for the rest of your life 

Show notes by show producer: Chelsea Taylor-Sturkie 

Audio production by Turnkey Podcast Productions. You're the expert. Your podcast will prove it.  

Quitting is Not an Option: With Nancy & Julio Garcia 

In this episode, Sam, Pat, Nancy and Julio discuss:  

·         Loving yourself by standing in your truth about what you need in a relationship 

·         The dangers of falling into a routine in your life and relationship 

·         Finding fun in everything you do – enjoy your life – 80-100 years isn’t that long 

·         Grudges are poison - learn to forgive yourself and then you can forgive others 

·         Find solutions that serve the relationship, not just yourself or your partner 

Key Takeaways:  

·         Learn how to communicate with - how to talk to - one another and don’t forget to play. 

·         Give without regret, without limits. Don’t hold back from love. 

·         Love yourself first and don’t be afraid to give because that only cheats yourself. 

·         All couples need to find their own spice and play in the bedroom. 

·         When things get rough, go back to when you fell in love and focus on those things. 

·         If you leave your relationship without working out the issues, you will have those same issues in your next relationship. 

·         Please your partner! Give, give, give. 

"I’m going to give you all my love. What you do with it, that’s your decision." — Nancy Garcia  

References:  

The Ziglar Show – Inspiring Your #TruePerformance 

Conversations with God by Neale Donald Walsch 

Connect with Nancy and Julio:   

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/nmllc/ 

Website:   www.nmllc.com 

Connect with Sam and Pat:  

Twitter: @BiggerLoveBook  

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BiggerLoveBook  

Website: http://www.biggerlove.com/   

Book: Bigger Love- How to have the love of your life for the rest of your life    

Show notes by show producer: Chelsea Taylor-Sturkie and Sam Cullinane 

Audio production by Turnkey Podcast Productions. You're the expert. Your podcast will prove it.  

Building Legendary Couples With Lance and Brandy Salazar 

In this episode, Sam, Pat, Lance and Brandy discuss: 

·         Casting a vision for your relationship, creating a plan, and taking massive action 

·         ‘Appreciative Inquiry’ and applying it to relationships 

·         Working through major triggers 

·         How to get it on when you live in a 1400 sq ft house and you home school your kids

Key Takeaways: 

·         Loving yourself is critical and you cannot rely on anyone ‘to complete you’ 

·         If you work on getting to know your partner as if it was your favorite hobby by asking them lots of questions about their childhood, thoughts, and feelings, you’ll build deep connection and intimacy 

·         Get your ‘partnership’ in order – take care of the mechanics and logistics of your household – and this will lead to closer friendship and easier intimacy

“Life has taught us that love does not consist in gazing at each other, but in looking outward together in the same direction.” — Antoine de Saint-Exupéry, Wind, Sand, and Stars

Special offer for Legendary Couples for Doggy Style listeners:

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Mentions: Rock Thomas, Beverly Steiner, Jon Berghoff & David Cooperrider, Lindsay McCarthy, Esther Perel

References: The Minimalist podcast, The Little Prince by Antoine de Saint-Exupéry, LOVE by Leo Buscaglia, Happy Together by Suzann Pileggi Pawelski  & James O. Pawelski PhD 

Connect with Lance and Brandy Salazar:  

Twitter: https://twitter.com/legendcouples

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/legendarycouples/

Website:   https://www.legendarycouples.com/

Connect with Sam and Pat: 

Twitter: @BiggerLoveBook 

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BiggerLoveBook 

Website: http://www.biggerlove.com/  

Book: Bigger Love- How to have the love of your life for the rest of your life

Audio production by Turnkey Podcast Productions. You're the expert. Your podcast will prove it. 

Leveling Up Relationships Through IMAGO Therapy with Rabbi Shlomo and Rivka Slatkin 

In this episode, Sam, Pat, Shlomo and Rivka discuss: 

•  How romantic love (Eros) tricks us into getting married. 
• Having children (especially the first one) can amplify issues in relationships. 
• Dealing with the past to push through to the future. 
• Creating safety in your conversations. 

Key Takeaways: 

• Having and keeping true love is a lot of hard work. 
• Creating a deeper connection with your partner can happen by going on adventures together. 
•  Issues in a relationship doesn’t mean you chose the wrong partner, it means you need to heal and grow as a couple. 
•  Love means to give to others and become one with them unconditionally.

Rabbi Shlomo & Rivka Slatkin’s Online Marriage School at 50% off to Doggy Style listeners! https://www.totalmarriagetransformation.com/shlomo1

"What we’re trying to reach in IMAGO is to leave the power struggle and enter into a conscious marriage." — Rabbi Shlomo Slatkin 

Connect with Sam and Pat: 

Twitter: @BiggerLoveBook 

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BiggerLoveBook 

Website: http://www.biggerlove.com/  

Book: Bigger Love- How to have the love of your life for the rest of your life 

Connect with Shlomo and Rivka Slatkin:  

Twitter:  http://www.twitter.com/shlomoslatkin  

Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/themarriagerestorationproject  

Website:  www.themarriagerestorationproject.com 

Email:  [email protected] 

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/rabbishlomoslatkin  

Pinterest: http://www.pinterest.com/rabbislatkin/  

Google +: https://plus.google.com/+RabbiShlomoSlatkinTheMarriageRestorationProject/posts 

LinkedIn: http://www.linkedin.com/pub/shlomo-slatkin/87/873/3b6/  

Online Marriage School course at 50% off: https://www.totalmarriagetransformation.com/shlomo1

Show notes by show producer: Jessie Taylor 

Audio production by Turnkey Podcast Productions. You're the expert. Your podcast will prove it. 

In this episode, Sam, Pat, Iain and Gabrielle discuss:

• How to have heaven on earth in your marriage
• How to use intention in conversation
• Different personalities in a relationship
• Sometimes as a spouse you have to let your spouse make their own decisions, even if you don't agree with it

Key Takeaways:

• Explain why you're having a conversation about something to your partner
• Know where your boundaries are
• Asking questions exposes the meaning
• Love comes from the inside and is an energetic vibration, talking to your spouse about love is very fulfilling

"Live by the idea that the greater master always yields." — Iain Grae

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Connect with Sam and Pat:

Twitter: @BiggerLoveBook

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BiggerLoveBook

Website: http://www.biggerlove.com/

Book: Bigger Love- How to have the love of your life for the rest of your life

Connect with Iain and Gabrielle Grae:

Website:  https://www.evolvedlyfe.com/

https://gabriellegrae.com/

Email:  [email protected]

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/iaingrae

Show notes by show producer: Jessie Taylor

Audio production by Turnkey Podcast Productions. You're the expert. Your podcast will prove it.