what do you wanna be known for? Because although you’re here now one day you will be gone. And yes I’m sure your family will miss you if you go before them. But will I miss you? Will you have impacted me? I would have to ask what did you do? So what are you doing , Not just to help or impact me, but for anyone . Because if that’s not what life is about. I’m sure Going through all the trouble of celebrating your life would be largely abolished . “ funerals “