Wonderfully Done: Wholesome Sex and Dating Advice

Domination, BDSM, and Sex Work with Sir James

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Dearest sex and love nerds, today we’re talking about the D in BDSM 🖤 with a wholesome and yummy interview with a local Pro Dom in Melbourne. Meet Sir James! 

 

Topics we explore in this episode:

  • Anecdotes and lessons learned from kink and sex work
  • Legal limitations for sex worker advertising and operating
  • Stigma and misconceptions around sex work
  • Tackling shame and helping partners find their kinky interests
  • How to be a fabulous first-time client
  • Tips for adding domination into your dynamic at home
  • How to be an active, supportive submissive

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    Who is Sir James?

    Sir James (He/Him) is a Pro Dom working out of Melbourne at Fetish House in Oakleigh. He’s a strong rugged man, specialising in services including Masculine Domination, Manhandling, Impact, Bondage, couples coaching, and more.

     

    Where to find more Sir James

    Twitter: https://twitter.com/SirJamesMedia

    Fetish House Profile: https://fetishhouse.com.au/fetish-providers/james/ 

    Email: [email protected]

     

    Content and Creators mentioned in this episode:

    • Resource: Sex Menu
    • An awesome tool made by Dr. Stephen de Wit (Sex Therapist)
  • This sex menu outlines a wide range of activities and gives you the space to rate your interest out of 5, whether to you to give or receive a certain act, if you’ve done it before and a space for notes
  • Filling this in is a great opportunity to get in touch with what interests you in the world of touch, sex, pleasure, and BDSM right now
  • Really fun to do alone for personal knowledge or with partners! Also makes for great sexy homework
  • Fetish House
    • The only custom-designed and built venue in Melbourne specialising in fetish, fantasy and BDSM
  • Versatile selection of available professionals, including Dominatrixes, Masters, submissives and more!
  • We love their extensive Etiquette Guide 
    • Tryst
    • Recommended listings page for independent escorts, with photos and lots of information on services, pricing and more
    • Everything Harder than Everyone Else by Jenny Valentish
    • A fabulous new book focusing on ‘why some of us push our bodies to the extreme’, including a substantial interview with Sir James in the context of BDSM

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    Lots of love,

    Lauren and Vix 💋

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