Done With The Dumb Stuff

Buckle up your seatbelt and join Sharise L. Erby along with her special guest, Councilman OD Harris as they discuss how men have been built for strength. In the aftermath of the suicide of the amazing creative tWitch the discussion must continue, we have lost too many phenomenal lives to suicide and especially our black men. Sharise and OD are delving into mental health and relationships as only they can with humor. Please remember that Your Mental Health Matters!

The decisions you make today, the behaviors that you model today will become what you, your children, grandchildren, nieces, nephews, and friends refer to as the good old days in 10...20...30...40 years! How you live your life today will shape your legacy whether you are intentional or not, so why not be intentional and create the legacy that you desire and deserve. Join Sharise for this fiery reminder that every decision we make matters, are you playing the short game or the long game? Your choice.

It feels like we are making dating and relationships so complicated in our current social climate, it seems as though everyone wants to take. What's in it for me? What can I take away from the table? It's me...me...me...me! What happen to the concept of give and take, sometimes I am the giver and other times I am the taker. We bend and maneuver with each other, the intention was never to be one sided. I guess my question is...Is give and take still a thing in relationships and I'd love to hear your thoughts?

Have you ever felt like something great was on the horizon but it was just outside your grasp? Oftentimes, the reason it feels outside of our grasp is because we must let go of or walk away from the old in order to step into the new. We must be willing to exit our current situation and trust our next is another step closer to our greatness.

Sometimes do you wonder if there is really somebody out there for everybody? Are you a woman or man looking for like minded people, you're looking for YOUR tribe, or are you an entrepreneur wondering when and where your customers will walk through the door? 

Well, this episode is for you!

Sharise reminds us that "every pot has its lid!"

Life and death are in the power of the tongue, who are you allowing to speak into your life? One thing life has taught me is that it is imperative to be selective on who you accept advice from, everyone who claims to speak wisdom is not speaking wisdom. Everyone who claims to be for you is not for you. Every influencer as we call them these days do not have your best interest at heart as much as spewing randomness to build followers and earn income. Pay attention to who you allow in your ear!

Body image and self love are still two very touchy but real topics that keep so many people, especially women from living our best lives. The best of us still get caught up in society norms and have trouble seeing ourselves as the total package, the Queens and Kings that we are. In this episode Sharise opens up for the first time to publicly to discuss her journey with getting to place of being in love with all of her, every roll, every giggle, every cracked tooth, her entire package. Take a listen!

"Every Wise Woman Builds Her House, But the Foolish Tears It Down With Her Hands." Are you building or tearing down, which have you selected? Join Sharise as she shares her perspective on another touchy topic among women. Listen at your own risk. Remember you can meet Sharise on her website forum www.shariselerby.com or her YouTube Channel Sharise Speaks to leave your comments. Never stop building your Queendom! 

Where are they at? Where are all the good men? Sharise gets this question all the time, where are all the good men, today she has an answer for you! Listen in and then let all of your single girlfriends know to tune in.

If you are in the dating market the odds is that you have been ghosted or you did the ghosting, regardless of which side of the fence you have been on, ghosting is hurtful and can lead some people to a hurtful place. In this episode Sharise addresses this subject head on and attempts to makes some sense of such a dumb way of ending communication.

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