In this episode host Celina Tolbert sits down with journalist and content strategist Bianca Gracie for an honest, funny, and insightful conversation about dating across cultures, languages, and continents. From the fast-paced hustle of New York dating to the romanticized (and often misunderstood) realities of dating in Paris, Bianca breaks down what love really looks like when language barriers and cultural differences come into play.

Drawing from her Jamaican heritage, experiences as a Black American woman living and traveling abroad, and deep personal connection to France, Bianca shares stories of romance, miscommunication, cultural curiosity, and the fine line between admiration and fetishization. The conversation explores how language impacts dating dynamics, including humorous “lost in translation” moments, emotional disconnects, and the challenges of expressing desire, sarcasm, and boundaries in another culture.

Together, Celina and Bianca unpack what it means to protect your self-worth in dating, set clear boundaries, and reject shame around wanting love—no matter where in the world you are. As Bianca prepares for her return to Paris, she reflects on growth, identity, and the joy (and chaos) of cross-cultural relationships.

If you’re curious about dating abroad, navigating cross-cultural relationships, or redefining romance beyond borders, this episode is a must-listen.

Keywords: dating abroad, language barriers, cultural differences, Paris dating, New York dating, cross-cultural relationships, self-worth in dating, Bianca Gracie, Celina Tolbert