When is friction in a relationship good, and when does it feel more like conflict? What happens when anonymity at work breeds the same vitriol is breeds on social media? Should you try to talk with strangers when you're out in the world? In this episode, Alan and Candace break down all this, from what happens when people in relationships are comfortable with different levels of friction, if and when anonymous feedback is helpful, and the real benefits of engaging in small talk, without being a creep.