Imagine talking about issues without blame!
Do you even win if you blame others?
When you blame others, they will feel embarrassed, called out, and feel like the bad guy. If they end up apologizing to you, they may begin to resent you shortly after.
Is that all worth it?
What if you could find the balance where the person acknowledges their wrongdoing but without anyone feeling blamed?
Listen to this podcast now and I share how you can achieve this powerful conversation with the other person. It involves focusing not on blame but on contribution. I will explain what that is and how to evaluate each situation.
This approach will allow you and the other person to have more ownership and acknowledgment of the wrongdoing without blaming, embarrassing, or having to “win” the discussion.
Once you do that, you will be able to open up more in your relationships, be more accepting, and understand each other’s boundaries.