So, life is an exploration.  What is that mean...??  It means you must discover it.  How...??  By creating yourself and not copying or following what others think, feel, and do.  leading yourself is all about becoming free from the so-called "normal."  Because it is all about being yourself.

Discover who is "The Loose Damned":  https://www.amazon.com/kindle-vella/story/B096L2FYN2

This episode is also available as a blog post: http://asarodriguez.com/2021/11/08/dont-follow-lead-yourself/