I want you to know you do not have to be skinny to live your best life. And I hope you know that you are beautiful and dont need to thin. I want you to know if you wanna lose weight that you should take your time and eat and workout and track your calories. But you do not need to crash diet or restrict to lose weight. Men will love you and take care of you even if you are fat. There are plenty of fat women who get good men. And if you wanna lose weight do it because of you and not a man. Never feel like you have to do something to get a man. You are the prize even if you are fat. I hope you know that your beautiful and that you deserve princess treatment and these men wanting you and wanting to take care of you.