In this two-part episode, you learn why it is important NOT to judge someone when they are angry. Although it may sound easy to do, judging someone while they are angry causes more harm than good.  We learn not to judge someone while they are angry in a few places in the Zohar, one in Parshat Noah and Parshat Vayera with Moses. When someone is angry, hurting, stressed, they say things that are inappropriate. Learn to pause, understand it is not personal, and try to 'sweeten' them with kindness (metuk dinim).