Being put to shame is to have comparisons made and to see yourself as being flawed, but a refuge can be found, and hope can be restored. 

I could see him withering under a hailstorm of accusations. He had a sexual addiction, and he was trying to stay true, but the pornography found on his cell phone sent his self-righteous friends into overload. 

He was being ‘put to shame’ 

Being ‘put to shame’ is to make someone or something seem not good by comparison. 

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