Seeking approval from someone who doesn’t genuinely want to be with us can be a draining and unfulfilling pursuit. When we focus our energy on winning the approval of those who aren’t invested in our success or well-being, we risk undermining our own self-worth. Their indifference can lead to feelings of inadequacy and frustration, as we might find ourselves constantly trying to meet standards that aren’t aligned with our true value.

Moreover, attempting to gain validation from someone who doesn’t support us can distract us from recognizing and appreciating our own strengths and achievements. Instead of fostering growth and creativity, it can stifle our potential, making us second-guess our abilities and ideas.

Investing in relationships with those who appreciate and encourage our work not only boosts our confidence but also allows us to thrive in an environment where our contributions are valued. Ultimately, it’s more empowering to focus on connections that uplift us rather than to chase the approval of someone who isn’t committed to our journey. Your work deserves recognition from those who truly see and support you.