We've been trying to get Sylvester Stemley on this podcast for three years. When he finally explained why he waited, it all clicked — he was watching to see if I was answering an agenda or answering an assignment.

This conversation hits deep. Sylvester went from managing trainers and working with pro athletes to full-time youth ministry, realizing God had been preparing him all along. We talk about the Teen Summit, the challenge of reaching kids in a noisy world, and a powerful truth: don’t waste the wait. While you’re waiting, are you picking up the weight to grow stronger?

If you feel stuck, overlooked, or are waiting on a breakthrough, this episode is for you. Sylvester unpacks Joseph’s time in prison and how purpose can still be lived out in the hardest seasons.

We cover:

• His transition from fitness to youth ministry

• Why he waited three years to come on the podcast

• Lessons from the Teen Summit

• The real obstacle in youth ministry

• Why discipleship starts at home

• Agenda vs. assignment

• Not wasting your season

• Using influence the right way

Sylvester is humble, intentional, and serious about reaching the next generation. I’m fired up about what we’re building.

If this episode spoke to you, share it. And if you’re in a season of waiting — don’t waste it. Pick up the weight.