Why is making friends as an adult so hard?

In this episode of The Dark Side of Perfect, Maggie explores the digitization of modern friendship and why we’ve lost the comfort of the Third Space. Whether you’ve just moved to a new city or you’re feeling the weight of a lonely routine, Maggie shares her personal journey of moving from a nomadic kid to an adult who had to learn how to leave the house to save her social life.

We dive into why it’s unfair (and exhausting) to expect our partners or long-distance besties to be our entire support system, and why you don't have to leave behind your old friends to make room for new ones.

Episode Outline:

Building community through confidence and connection
The importance of support systems and social health
The evolution of third spaces before and after digital age
Personal stories of online and in-person community connections

Expanding your support network through diverse relationships

Overcoming the adult friend-making stigma and fears

Practical tips for initiating friendship and community

Moving, friendship, and building community across different life stages

Encouragement to share tips and seek connection in the comments

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