Can you remember the last time you had a meaningful conversation with your teen?

Hey, teens aren’t exactly the easiest people to talk to. Sometimes, getting even two or three words out of ‘em is a rare feat. So if you could use some help, here are some basic dos and don’ts for connecting one- on- one with your teen.

Do ask thoughtful questions.

Do spend more time listening than talking.

Do give them your full, undivided attention.

However…

Don’t turn your conversation into a lecture.

Don’t give your opinion, unless they ask for it.

And don’t shut down their response with critical words or body language.

Starting a conversation with your teen won’t always be easy. But with smart techniques and a humble heart … you can make a meaningful connection.

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