Pulverizing The Patterns: Conversations With Jed Brotherson

Dr. Bruce Chalmer on Rewriting the Relationship Blueprint: What to Know Before You Commit

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How do you prepare yourself for a thriving relationship before you even get in one?

Most of us have felt betrayal in one form or another; and because we assume, or may be programmed to believe, that forgiving someone is an automatic “reset” button that takes you right back where you started from, we may be reluctant to forgive, even when the forgiveness is for our own sake.

Join Dr. Bruce Chalmer for this transformative conversation with Certified Life Coach Jed Brotherson and discover how taking a new view on navigating the messy, meaningful, and transformative terrain of relationships pulverizes the patterns that may keep you from deeper connection, emotional safety, and self-awareness.

Tune in and discover Dr. Bruce Chalmer’s thoughts on:

  • How our unexamined patterns (from childhood, culture, or past relationships) affect what we look for in a partner
  • What can help you distinguish between someone who complements you vs. someone who simply feels familiar because of old patterns
  • Why two halves of a couple grow at different speeds emotionally and spiritually, and how to stay aligned through different stages of transformation
  • His framework “Be kind, don’t panic, and have faith” – and why faith in particular is essential to emotional intimacy
  • If you feel stuck with a partner who won’t engage in emotional work, what options you have – and why men in particular resist these options
  • And much, much more!
    • Invitation From Guest

    Take Dr. Bruce Chalmer’s online Stability and Intimacy Assessment and gain insights as to what patterns may need pulverized:

    https://forms.gle/1Pj8MUQDH2cYfbVW7

    Also, watch Dr. Chalmer’s video, “How Do You Get Your Reluctant Guy to Go to Couples Therapy with You?”, which expounds on one of the key themes of this interview:

    https://youtu.be/SlGtc9NoaA4

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