Born For This Stories

Dr. Susan's Story: Adoption, Down Syndrome, and the Power of Connection


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Some stories take your breath away, not because they're tragic, but because they are so full of life that you can feel every heartbeat of them.

In this episode, Johanna and Peter sit down with Dr. Susan, a chiropractor and mom whose family story unfolded in the most unexpected way. After years of infertility and finally adopting their daughter Emme, Susan found out she was pregnant just 13 days later. When her son Benny was born, he was diagnosed with Down syndrome - a moment delivered in silence, confusion, and overwhelming emotion.

Through vulnerability and honesty, Susan describes the NICU days, the dark thoughts that no parent talks about, the friend who said, "You tell me when and where and I'll be there," and the long, winding road toward acceptance, advocacy, and joy. Her story is a reminder that every child arrives with purpose, and every parent deserves support, softness, and community

In this episode:

  • The shock of discovering pregnancy just days after adopting

  • The silent delivery room and the moment a doctor said they "suspected he could have Down Syndrome"

  • Navigating the NICU, feeding challenges, and early medical confusion

  • The dark thoughts of early motherhood: "The guy walked us out and said 'well, congratulations,' and I remember thinking… for what?"

  • How one friend dropped everything to say, "You tell me when and where and I'll be there."

  • Benny's journey: hearing loss scares, respiratory issues, therapies, and the joy of who he is today

  • The importance of community, early intervention, and finding families who "just get it"

Connect with today's guest:

πŸ‘‰ @BarrettFamilyCairo πŸ‘‰ @BennysBuddies2015

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Born For This StoriesBy Dr. Johanna & Peter Hartley