"It's impossible to script a life that has serendipity in it."
We need to evolve out of fear. By that I mean, if we use our anxieties as more like a compass, they can guide us towards self-development. This increases our courage, which is, quite simply, the ability to exist in the world. Or, as my philosopher friend, @alexihelligar puts it, courage "increases our degrees of freedom."

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