I was vibing. Haircut fresh. Conversation on point. We locked eyes — twice. I had the room laughing, the energy was high, and then... they hit me with the “he gotta pay if he wanna stay” ultimatum.

In this episode, I’m breaking down what really happened last night. This ain’t no fake storytime — it’s a real convo on how modern dating is shifting into a transactional space, where laughs ain’t enough and a good vibe costs $100 minimum.

We’re talking about:

• Why men feel pressure to pay just to get basic attention
• Why women expect so much upfront — and what they’re risking
• What it’s like being a good, tall, handsome dude with no intention of being a wallet
• Why dating in cities like Baltimore feels like buy-in before the intro

This one might ruffle some feathers, but it’s real. The club, the restaurant, the energy shift — let’s unpack it all.

🎧 Tune in and tell me: is it like this in your city too?