This is our first episode of the year and our first guest episode - and we’re not easing into anything.

In this conversation, I’m joined by wedding and elopement photographer Gavin Stebbins, and we’re calling out the bare minimum when it comes to inclusivity in the wedding industry. Posting one queer couple during Pride Month and calling yourself an ally? Yeah… not cutting it anymore.

We talk about:

• Performative allyship vs. real support

• Why inclusivity has more to do with action than aesthetics

• Red flags queer couples notice immediately

• Language, websites, and marketing that actually create safety

• How allies can do better without being perfect

• Why effort is the highest form of allyship

This episode is honest, spicy, and deeply necessary — especially for wedding vendors, creatives, and anyone who claims to “lead with love” but hasn’t done the work yet.

If you’re ready to move past checkbox inclusivity and start showing up in a real way, this one’s for you.

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