What is the secret to a lifelong, happy marriage? In today’s episode, Adam Hill interviews his wife Marie about their 19 years of marriage. They discuss the challenges they've faced, including Adam's past alcoholism, and how they've grown together through personal development. They discuss the other struggles they've faced raising their two teenagers, and navigating anxiety and fear as a family. Marie shares her perspective on how their relationship has evolved since they first met in college, and how choosing to stay connected through good times and bad has helped them grow together.

Here are some power takeaways from today’s conversation:

Episode Highlights:

[10:51] Prioritizing Self-Care and Therapy for a Stronger Relationship

Growing together through struggles like addiction, mental health issues, or raising children makes the relationship stronger. However, if you find yourself in a toxic relationship, it's crucial to prioritize your own well-being and not try to fix others. While it can be a double-edged sword, seeking individual therapy worked wonders for Adam and Marie. Couples therapy may be common, but the value of one-on-one therapy cannot be underestimated. The couple went into separate therapy sessions, which they found to be incredibly beneficial. They have been dedicated to therapy for years, and normalizing it in the family has had a significant impact. 

[21:51] Embracing Hope and Personal Development

When we hit rock bottom, feeling utterly hopeless, it's essential to recognize that there is hope beyond that darkness. Even in the depths of shame, there can be a moment of realization, a glimmer of something more. It becomes the starting line for personal growth and becoming a better person. Through sobriety and the introduction of personal development, we can begin to plant seeds of change within ourselves. We have the capacity to evolve and grow through our traumas, but it requires us to let go of fear and embrace the process. As beautifully said, when we let go, we give that seed within us the opportunity to blossom into a wonderful and beautiful flower of development.

[34:07] The Power of Weekly Meetings

Adam and Marie have discovered the power of their weekly meetings, which have transformed their communication and how they interact with each other. By having a structured meeting every week, they stay in sync with each other's schedules and priorities. This consistent communication has become a game changer for them. They have implemented the Entrepreneurial Operating System (EOS) from the book "Traction" by Gino Wickman, both in their company and household, finding it to be highly effective. The weekly meetings help them stay aligned and accountable, just like in a business setting. Partners must work together and hold each other accountable for a successful relationship.

Resources Mentioned:

Traction by Gino Wickman

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