It is like people will say if you are kind and humble we are getting soft and then if we are being too soft  then people will run over you. yes it is true to some extent but there is a line for that. Getting soft is like you seeing that there is a problem but instead of addressing it the way you saw, you’re like it’s okay no problem - that is pleasing people. You’re just agreeing with everything, like an “Yes Man” to everything do it long enough this is when you got people sitting on your head and running your life or running over you. We should not do that there is a difference between Agreeing and not arguing.