In this episode, Melissa reflects on reflecting on times when how we're perceived by the outside world doesn't match how we feel on the inside. 1:35 - Why do people describe Melissa as aggressive and intimidating? 3:08 - You're a powerhouse. 4:40 - The conflict between wanting to be seen as intimidating vs. being yourself and wanting people to find me intimidating. 6:09 - What's the difference between "love yourself" and "acceptance"? 7:31 - The only way to truly love yourself is to get through the layers of anger with yourself. 8:37 - The only way to love ourselves is to go in.